Pain is something I thought I could do without until Jesus showed me what pain is all about.
He said if you experience pain and suffer for me then you can be sure that I'll set you free.
He said when He was nailed to the cross, He suffered lots of pain, only for you to have spiritual gain.
So,
if you think of pain as being no good just consider the gain and it will be understood.
Now whenever you have pain and it makes you start to cry, remember your spiritual gain and ask yourself why.